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I'm often asked how is it best to recover from ADHD burnout. So I hope this guide provides you with some understanding and tips. 1. Stop Pushing Through It

Many ADHDers operate in “survival mode,” ignoring exhaustion and forcing themselves to keep going. But pushing through burnout only makes it worse. If you’re at the point of shutdown, you need to pause and allow yourself time to rest without guilt.


Give yourself permission to take breaks without feeling like you’re failing. Rest isn’t unproductive if it's going to HELP YOU, I'm not saying sit on your phone all day in bed. That will not help. But take care of yourself and reduce the demands you have in the day.


2. Reduce Decision Fatigue

Burnout makes even small choices feel overwhelming. Simplifying daily decisions can help prevent additional mental strain.


  • Wear the same few outfits each week (decision-free dressing).

  • Plan easy meals in advance to avoid last-minute choices.

  • Use checklists to reduce the mental load of remembering tasks.


3. Reset Your Dopamine Levels

ADHD brains crave stimulation, and burnout often leads to unhealthy coping mechanisms (like excessive phone use or binge-watching TV). Instead of relying on quick dopamine fixes, focus on activities that provide sustainable energy.


  • Engage in low-effort hobbies (listening to music, coloring, walking outside).

  • Reduce overstimulation by limiting screen time.

  • Try and destimulate, go for a walk around the neighbourhood.

  • Prioritize activities that bring genuine enjoyment without guilt.


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4. Adjust Your Expectations

Many ADHDers fall into perfectionism, feeling like they must be “on” all the time. Burnout often happens when expectations are unrealistic.


  • Break large tasks into smaller, manageable steps.

  • Set a goal of “good enough” instead of perfect.

  • Remind yourself that productivity doesn’t define your worth.

  • Give yourself a list of 3 easy to complete tasks, no more, no less.


5. Get More Sleep (Even If Your Brain Resists It)

ADHD brains struggle with sleep regulation, but burnout makes sleep deprivation even worse. Sleep deprivation leads to more executive dysfunction, emotional instability, and difficulty concentrating.


  • Set a wind-down routine (dim lights, avoid screens an hour before bed).

  • Use sleep aids like white noise or weighted blankets.

  • Aim for consistent sleep and wake times, even on weekends. Your body doesn't understand what a weekend is. It's biological programming does not follow the societal expectations, if it did, you likely wouldn't have burnout.


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6. Move Your Body (Without Overwhelming Yourself)

Exercise helps regulate dopamine and reduce stress, but burnout often makes physical activity feel impossible. Instead of forcing intense workouts, focus on gentle movement.


  • Stretching, yoga, or short walks outside.

  • Dance to your favourite song for a quick dopamine boost.

  • Set a goal of some movement rather than perfection.


7. Set Boundaries and Say No

One of the biggest contributors to burnout is overcommitting. ADHDers often say “yes” to too many things and then struggle to keep up. Learning to say no (without guilt) is key to preventing future burnout.


  • Practice saying, “I’d love to, but I can’t commit to that right now.”

  • Reduce unnecessary obligations that drain your energy.

  • Prioritize what truly matters and let go of what doesn’t.


8. Seek Support Instead of Going It Alone

ADHD burnout can feel isolating, but you don’t have to go through it alone. Reaching out for support can make recovery easier.


  • Talk to a trusted friend, therapist, or ADHD coach.

  • Join ADHD support communities where people understand your struggles.

  • Use external accountability to help regain motivation at a manageable pace.


Remember that self sabotage can be not asking for help.


I'm going to keep this one brief.....


1. You're not perfect, get over it.

Your child doesn’t need a perfect parent, they need a present one. Instead of worrying about getting everything right, focus on strengthening your relationship with your child.


Spend time with your child without focusing on behaviour, play, laugh, and connect.



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2. Reframe “Mistakes” as Learning Opportunities

And when I say mistakes, I'm meaning yours. Parenting is a constant learning process. Instead of beating yourself up over missteps, use them as opportunities for growth.


If you react in a way you regret, acknowledge it, “I was really frustrated earlier, and I yelled. That wasn’t okay. I’ll try a different way next time.”


3. Set Realistic Expectations for Yourself

Remind yourself that ADHD parenting is complex, and perfection isn’t possible.

Adjust your expectations to reflect your reality.


When you feel guilty, ask yourself how you would respond to giving comfort to another parent in your shoes. Would you expect another parent in your situation to be perfect? If the answer is no, offer yourself the same grace.


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4. Find Support and Validation

Surrounding yourself with people who get it can help you feel less alone and more confident in your parenting.


Join an ADHD parenting group, follow neurodivergent advocates, or talk to a trusted friend who understands.


5. Celebrate Small Wins

Parenting wins don’t have to be big. Did you manage a meltdown better than last time? Did your child get ready without a fight? Those moments matter.


When guilt creeps in, remind yourself of the progress. The days are long, but the years are short. -



How to make your ADHD symptoms worse

Most people with ADHD are looking for ways to improve their focus, organization, and emotional regulation. But what if we flipped the script? What if, instead of talking about how to manage ADHD, we looked at all the things that make it worse?

If you’re looking for a way to completely derail your productivity, increase frustration, and ensure your brain stays in full chaos mode, here’s your ultimate guide. (Or, you know, use this list to recognize what NOT to do.)


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  1. Get as Little Sleep as Possible

Want to experience maximum brain fog, emotional meltdowns, and whole scope of executive dysfunction? Just cut back on sleep. ADHD brains already struggle with regulation, and lack of sleep only intensifies inattention, impulsivity, and irritability. But this also goes for TOO much sleep. Stay in bed all day, maximize 14-16 hours of sleep, that's just as guaranteed to make your symptoms worse.


  1. Skip Meals and Rely on Junk Food

Blood sugar crashes are your best friend if you want to make ADHD symptoms worse that is. Skipping meals or loading up on processed sugar leads to mood swings, brain fog, and an absolute inability to focus. It is true that having something sugary can improve cognition temporarily, but you really want to be overloading yourself with those short term fixes to ensure your body has nothing to run on.


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  1. Surround Yourself with Clutter and Chaos

ADHD brains struggle with organization, so why not make things harder by keeping your space as messy and chaotic as possible? The more visual distractions, the better. If you want to make your ADHD symptoms the worst they possibly can be, luckily this is one that won't take much effort to achieve as it's typically a trait of ADHD anyway.


  1. Try to Force Yourself into a Neurotypical Routine

If you want to really frustrate yourself, try using rigid, traditional productivity methods that weren’t designed for ADHD brains. To-do lists with 50 items, sitting in one spot for hours, and attempting to power through boring tasks without breaks will ensure burnout and failure. You need to expect yourself to work like a machine, you have to berate yourself when you get distracted, and ignore any need for movement or stimulation. The saying, 'stay till it's done,' should be your motto on this one.



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  1. Stay in One Place for Too Long

Want to guarantee restlessness and mental stagnation? Stay in the same environment all day without changing your scenery. ADHD brains thrive on novelty, so when everything starts feeling stale, motivation plummets. Work, eat, and relax in the same spot every day without a change of surroundings.


  1. Sit Down and Stay There (The Sit Pit)

If you have a task to do, there is nothing more important to making sure you become further dysregulated than to convince yourself you need a break and to sit down. ADHD brains need movement to regulate energy and maintain focus. But if you want to hit a full executive dysfunction shutdown, just plant yourself on the couch or at your desk for hours without a break. Stay in one position for as long as possible, ignore your body's need for movement, and wait until your energy completely crashes before forcing yourself up.


  1. Hyperfocus on the Wrong Things

Why tackle the task you need to do when you could spend hours deep-diving into an obscure topic or organizing your bookshelf by colour? Hyperfocus can be useful, but not when it hijacks your entire day. Spend three hours perfecting a spreadsheet instead of paying your bills, then panic when you realize you’ve missed deadlines. Rely on the adrenal glands to motivate you with a good hit of adrenaline, that ought to do it.


  1. Avoid Asking for Help

ADHD is hard enough to manage on your own, so why not make it even harder by refusing support? Many ADHDers struggle with self-reliance, thinking they should be able to handle everything solo. Refuse to use resources, avoid seeking support, and convince yourself that asking for help is a sign of weakness.


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  1. Doomscroll on Your Phone All Day

Excessive phone use is the perfect recipe for distraction, overstimulation, and avoidance of important tasks. Social media, endless TikTok scrolling, and hopping between apps hijack your dopamine and leave you feeling mentally drained. Check your phone the moment you wake up, keep notifications on for everything, and reach for your phone every time you feel the slightest bit bored. Make sure you use that time to consume more of my content, just while you're there that is.


  1. Rely on Prolonged Caffeine Intake

Caffeine can be a double-edged sword for ADHD. While it can help with focus in moderation, too much can cause anxiety, worsen sleep, and increase restlessness, leading to a vicious cycle of exhaustion and overstimulation. Drink coffee or energy drinks throughout the day, ignore how it affects your anxiety, and have a caffeine boost in the evening to “push through” your to-do list.

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